Breakups are usually very stressful on a person because ending a relationship with someone that they used to love is often hard to do. While many breakups can be easy, such as one where your partner cheats or you find another love, most breakups are hard to do. This guide will give you some tips on how to make breakups easy on both parties.
One of the many things that causes problems in a breakup is the potential problems that the breakup may cause. If one has kids involved are lives with the person these problems are multiplied. Because of these potential problems it is important to break up as gracefully as possible, to avoid any further complications in the relationship.
If at all possible it is best to end your relationship face to face. While many long distance relationships are ended online or through phone messages, any sincere person will end their relationship face to face. Doing this shows not only a lot of bravery, but it also puts closure to the relationship and makes both parties feel better in the long run.
Always think ahead when planning a face to face breakup. It is very important to take emotions out of this breakup and tell the honest truth at why you couldn’t get along anymore. Keeping good eye contact and pointing out the things that upset you are key to doing a face to face breakup.
It is always good to give your partner a little “heads up” before planning on the break up. Don’t take your partner on another date night and then plan on breaking up after you have had your fun together. Plan a separate meeting time, preferably alone, where you can discuss where you are coming from in your breakup. One thing to never do is plan on having sex and then breaking up. Your partner will hate you forever for this and feel degraded.
Ending a relationship is really a very difficult thing to do. However, if you know exactly what to do and how to do it gracefully, you will be able to go through with it without feeling guilty.
Just make sure that you say the words sincerely, maintain an eye contact, leave no room for doubt, and most of all do not ever back down especially when your partner started crying and you feel terrible about it.
The most important thing to do is to not leave any hopes of getting back together with your soon to be former partner. Many people have problems when they see their partner’s reactions and back off from the full breakup, this is a big mistake and should be avoided at all costs.