If you have been asking yourself or others please help as I need ways to save my marriage, then be assured you are not on your own there. With the stresses of modern life both at work and in the home more people are filing for a divorce than years ago when a marriage was a lifelong commitment. You dont have to just accept that all is lost just yet though as there are different strategies you can try to get your relationship back on track.
The fact that you are already asking for ways in which your nuptials can be saved whether you have been married for many years or a few short months means that you at least realise that there are problems within your relationship. It is these that need to be dealt with first.
Marriage councillors are a way to get to the bottom of the problem with a third party if your communications have broken down. It is not a case of looking for who is wrong or right but looking forward in how you can work together to make things better.
Because it has taken time for you to get to the stage you are at, to undo it is the same as in relationships cannot be fixed overnight as some feel they can. Patience is something you will need and with this and the right information you can work on a plan that you can both stick to.
At the beginning when you were deeply in love you will look back and remember how you did certain things that pleased the other. Over time these gestures are not noticed by the recipient and then the other person stops making the effort. To fix this problem you need to go back instead of forward to this time and back to the old feelings that seem a distant memory.
There will be other things in your life that are taking your time up parting you whether they are hobbies, social life, children you have together or had previously or even work commitments. There are ways that you can get valuable time together by making sure your holidays coincide or even an evening a week or fortnight where a babysitter looks after children while you go out or stay in and do the things you used to enjoy as a couple.
Most of all remember as a partnership you both have to be on board and reading from the same page for any of this to work.
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